Research shows that Third Culture Kids (TCKs) don’t just process information when they read or hear a news story. Because TCKs have experience living in another culture they absorb a news story in a different way – they put themselves in the place of the story. They see the sights, they smell the smells, they hear the chatter of the foreign language, they feel deep empathy with the people involved.
I am a TCK. I grew up in Nigeria, West Africa and spent some teenage years just outside of Amsterdam, the Netherlands. I was raised to care about the world and current events but I have a very hard time now watching or reading the news. Because of my life experiences when I read a news story I feel transported to that place, and sometimes the emotions that come along with that are just too much. That is why I connect so deeply with the fair trade movement. I have lived in a third world country and watched people that I cared about struggle to survive. Paying people a fair price for the goods they make is not just a vague concept to me.
My early childhood years were spent in an environment much different from where I live today. I struggle sometimes to explain it to my boys. There is no way they can understand the dusty African ground, the jubilation that came with the first rain of the season after months of heat and dust, the joy of sitting in a mango tree and eating the fruit as the juice runs down your face. My kids are used to unlimited running water and electricity. I remember the time of day when the generator had to be turned on and off in order for our house to have electricity. I remember the huge barrel at the top of a tower that collected rain water for our use. My kids are used to walking into a store and having limitless options and access to pretty much anything they want; food, toys, clothes, movies. I remember shopping at markets with tables of raw meat swarming with flies, produce piled on cloths on the ground, and milk being sold out of buckets. The only new toys were the ones that kids back from furlough brought with them, causing jealously for those of us who had no hope of getting a new toy until we got to go on furlough too.
I cannot adequately explain my childhood to my children, but I can instill in them the idea that people are connected. I can help them understand that spending our money here in America can empower someone who has a more difficult life than we do somewhere else in the world. That is why I love the Fair Trade Friday Club and it’s purpose: to tackle poverty through job opportunity and empowerment rather than enablement. 100% of the proceeds support the artisans, more than 500 women and their children from all over the world.
These beautiful earrings were sent to me through the Fair Trade Friday Earring of the Month Club. They were hand made by Waeh Me who is 26 years old. According to her bio on the Refugee Project website Waeh Me spent 10 years in a refugee camp in Burma before relocating to Houston, Texas. She probably suffered religious and ethnic persecution. Buying earrings that she made helps her provide for her 4 children. She is 10 years younger than me and has already had more challenge and hardship than I will probably ever see in my life time. There are many more women with similar stories to Waeh Me’s, women who want to care for their family and give them the best possible life that they can. Women who struggle every single day just to survive that day and make it to the next.
How much do mass produced earrings cost at a local big box store? The Earring of the Month Club is just $12.50 per month and every month a different pair of handmade, fair trade, lovely earrings will show up in your mailbox. You can save them for yourself or send them as gifts to friends (you can choose that option when you sign up on-line, they can be shipped to different addresses, how cool is that!).
I have worn my earrings a lot this summer. Every time I put them on I finger them and think about Waeh Me. I say a prayer for her asking God to encourage her and bless the work of her hands. I pray that her children are healthy and happy, just like I want my children to be. Every time someone complements me on my earrings I have an opportunity to tell them about Waeh Me and encourage them to be a part of building up women like her through buying fair trade.
I hope you will go and look around the Fair Trade Friday Club website. There are various options for monthly clubs to join as well as individual products to purchase if a monthly club is not a fit for you.
(The Fair Trade Friday Club is a ministry of Mercy House Kenya.)